Rev. Ron English: The gift of compromise

Ron English

Ron English

Ron English

Ron English

The word “compromise” often refers to a reluctant resolution to a difficult situation. In this sense, compromise is allied with concession as an agreement between conflicting parties which is closely monitored but shortly lived. However, a compromise created through collaborative conversations can serve as a teaching moment with a longer tenure.

This mode of compromise represents one recently presented to resolve a controversy that erupted over changing the name of Court Street to Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Way.

The initiators of the name change, attorney Kitty Dooley and City Councilwoman Jennifer Pharr, had worked out a compromise to keep the name Court Street and add Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. Way beneath it. They convened a meeting hosted by Deborah Weinstein at Charleston’s YWCA on the Sunday immediately before the compromise was to be presented to the City Planning Commission.

The group was comprised of representatives from faith-based organizations, community groups and individuals from both sides of the controversy. The purpose of the meeting was to engage the group’s support through a process of collaboration that heard and honored the perspectives of all participants.

Conversations to achieve this result revealed the core issue that energized the opposition was not that the name change honored Dr. King, but seemed to dishonor the personal and institutional sentiments associated with the story of Court Street. Conversations in such an open space often demonstrate the miracle of dialogue that strengthens connections and illuminates understanding among its participants.

Compromise gets complicated as a conflict resolution scheme when it is bound by binary “either/or” thinking that yields a middle ground agreement, at best. Conversations in an open space of “both/and” considerations often reveal a common ground resolution which is the gift of compromise. Compromise is a risky business, but it’s worth the risk.

Compromise is risky because it revolves around ideals held sacred by opposing sides. But the Israeli philosopher Avishai Margalit reminds us, “Ideals may tell us something important about what we would like to be; compromises tell us who we are.”

The poet sage Maya Angelou said, “When we know better we do better.” Hopefully, the collaborative conversations that prompted this compromise signify who we are and a zeal to become better.

Furthermore, the gift of compromise is a gift that will enhance the Court Street narrative. From the time Charleston was founded, Court Street has been the epicenter of justice. The compromise honors the work of Dr. King as the drum major for justice who embraced the belief that “the arc of the moral universe is long but it bends toward justice.’’

Finally, this compromise reveals an inconvenient truth of a displaced community in the Triangle District on the lower end of Court Street. The controversy provoked stories from the elders of the Triangle that still live in their hearts and minds despite the disruption in the Triangle.

The gift of compromise is a gift that keeps on giving. It honors the life and legacy of Martin Luther King Jr. and it enhances the peculiar pageantry of the Court Street narrative.

Might it be by Providential Design that the first national holiday we celebrate in the New Year is the birthday of a black Baptist preacher from the soul dust of the South, who constantly reminded us “the time is always right to do right?” Now is the time and Charleston is the place to do the right thing for the right cause and walk in King’s way.

The Rev. Ron English, of Charleston, was Ministerial Assistant to Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., and offered the prayer at his funeral.

Funerals for Monday, January 27, 2020

Davis, Valerie - 11 a.m., Cunningham Memorial Park, St. Albans.

Hamrick, Leonard - 1 p.m., Waters Funeral Chapel, Summersville.

Hughes Jr., Denver - 1 p.m., Curry Funeral Home, Alum Creek.

Keen, Cora - 2 p.m., Tyler Mountain Memory Gardens, Cross Lanes.

Lazear, Elizabeth - 7 p.m., Keller Funeral Home, Dunbar.

Masters, Delores - 1 p.m., Glen Ferris Apostolic Church, Glen Ferris.

Milroy, Miller - 11 a.m., Simons-Coleman Funeral Home, Richwood.

Petro, Edith - 11 a.m., Cunningham-Parker-Johnson Funeral Home, Charleston.

Phelps, Herbert - 2 p.m., Chapman Funeral Home, Hurricane.

Stanley, Gary - 1 p.m., Pryor Funeral Home, East Bank.

Stewart, Donna - 1 p.m., First United Methodist Church, South Charleston.

Walker, Iva - 1 p.m., Roush Funeral Home, Ravenswood.

Wilkinson, Catharine - Noon, Raynes Funeral Home, Eleanor Chapel.

Williams, Joseph - 3 p.m., Tyler Mountain Memory Gardens, Cross Lanes.